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Published on July 22nd, 2014 | by Craig Pomranz

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Craig Pomranz on MADE BY RAFFI

Made By Raffi, my children’s book with illustrator Margaret Chamberlain, was inspired by a true-life incident.  It is the story of a little boy who doesn’t care for sports but likes to knit and sew — at first he is teased for his hobby, but in the end he becomes a hero to his grade-school class. I wrote the book to support young boys and girls who are perceived as “different” because of their appearance or hobbies. It is a funny, colorful book with a serious message and will interest those who care about promoting diversity and embracing our differences, as well as all children seeking to fit in.

I have always been interested in the idea of how we tell our kids what is appropriate activity based on gender. Perhaps it is because I liked to sing and dance when I was young, while my older brothers were preoccupied by sports. Most of the parents of young kids I know are trying on one hand to let their kids follow their own interests, but on the other to help them fit in and avoid being teased.  As a result, atypical hobbies and behaviors are only encouraged so far.

How much misery and wasted talent is caused by these artificial ideas about what are appropriate activities for boys and girls? Being considered a tomboy is not such a bad thing in our male-centered society, but if a boy participates in an activity that is considered “feminine” – horrors!  The new “Like A Girl” campaign linked here demonstrates that children have to be taught gender behavior – it is not inherent.

raffi knitting

When my godson started knitting as a way to help him focus, he was teased, but eventually his classmates came to respect him for his talent. He also gave me a starting point for Made By Raffi.

Exploring many interests is the best way to find oneself and become a whole person. I hope kids will discover that being a boy or girl is not a sharply defined role, but can encompass many activities. Sadly, in recent years there seems to be a need to attach a sexual orientation to young children. One unfortunate unintended consequence of a healthy openness about sexuality is that very young kids doing any kind of exploration are assumed to be gay. Wouldn’t it be wonderful for all children to explore and discover as many facets of their lives as possible? Wouldn’t this help educate them and make them more well-rounded, whole men and women? How tragic that in the 21st century our spectrum of tolerated behavior has shrunk rather than expanded!

I hope the book shows that it is perfectly natural for boys and girls to be interested in many things.

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About the Author

Craig Pomranz

Craig Pomranz – Craig is an internationally known singer/song-stylist, actor… and now author!  Made By Raffi is his first children’s book with illustrations by award-winning artist Margaret Chamberlain.  Craig received New York’s MAC Award for Best Male Vocalist in 2012, and songwriters Amanda McBroom (composer of “The Rose,”Bette Midler’s Golden Globe award winning song) and Michele Brourman (The Land Before Time) have written a song, specifically for the book called “Different.” Originally from St. Louis, Craig lives in New York City and travels the world performing in nightclubs and theatres.  His popular CDs “More Than A Seasonal Thing” and “My Heart Don’t Skip A Beat” can be heard on radio stations around the world and are available on iTunes and his website www.CraigPomranz.com.



One Response to Craig Pomranz on MADE BY RAFFI

  1. Terrific that you are addressing this. As the mother of two girls, I’ve often said it must be much harder to raise a boy because our society has made great strides in “allowing” girls to pursue whatever interests they desire, but boys are still criticized for engaging in activities that are traditionally considered “girlish.” I got a real wake-up call the holiday season I worked at a Kay-Bee toy store and discovered that the so-called “boy aisle” was the one with all the violent toys. And then we wonder why are jails are filled with far more men than women!
    I’ll look for your book at my local bookstore. Good luck to you!

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